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With Hollywood starlets wearing next to goose egg on the scarlet carpet and the Internet and cell phones redefining what it means to flirt, girls are faced with a slew of confusing questions: When is a skirt besides brusque? Are tattoos trashy or terrific? Should I spread that rumor about my rival online? In "Swish: Exceptional Advice for the Extremely Modern Lady," author Derek Blasberg gives hilarious, edgeless direction about how young women can exist ladies and non tramps. In this excerpt, Blasberg dishes out style advice.

LADY VS. TRAMP: IN Fashion
Is your mini too curt? Your shirt too low-cutting? And other of import questions answered

Let'due south get one thing straight right now: An exposed thong is not sexy. Neither is an exposed nipple. Or exposed pubic pilus. Hell, barring a few exceptions (we'll give information technology to y'all, Madonna and Sarah Jessica Parker), even an exposed bra strap can take a daughter from sexy territory into slutty-land. (For the record, a lady never shows her bra strap. Madonna may exist fierce, but she is not a lady.)

Go along in mind that overexposed body parts aren't the only thing that differentiate sexy and slutty: Makeup, body language, and general mental attitude can also give off the wrong idea. Super red lips and loads of eye makeup are more lady of the nighttime than ladylike; lifting up your skirt for pictures, or constantly making an orgasm confront when gentlemen make eye contact, is plain unnecessary.

Not that anyone can be blamed for the error — in modern times, the distinction between sexy and slutty is often tricky territory. Afterward all, the desire to be sensual is no doubtfulness the reason that preteen girls are showing upwards to recess in miniskirts and tube tops.

Wanting to feel sexy? Okay, I become that. Dressing up and acting like a teenage truck stop prostitute, nonetheless, is a different issue. Certain, a young girl may confuse classy and trashy, but sure things and then clearly fall on the skanky side of the line.

For example, when teen starlets began going out wearing brusque skirts without underwear and climbing out of their Mercedes convertibles like a bunch of basketball players at halftime, driving the blogs into a frenzy with their uncensored photos, surely they did information technology to experience sexy. Just information technology backfired: Instead of applauding their adolescent sensuality, the unabridged world thought they were sluts with poor hygiene. (Except in your instance, Britney Spears; you were going through a existent rough patch. But you've gotten over it, at present. Bless. Love yous.)

Same thing with skirt length. While the fashion manufacture may dictate different lengths for different seasons — sometimes above the human knee, sometimes downwardly to the ankle—in that location will never exist a time when a woman's reproductive organ should exist exposed to the elements. I don't call back I'yard going out on a limb here when I say that Vogue will never have a story challenge that this flavor'south hottest accessory is an exposed crotch. "Your Baby Maker: Jump's Big Reveal" only won't sell copies.

How to look sexy, not sluttyIt might seem old and primitive. It might seem similar something your female parent might tell you or something that you lot'd read in a '50s prom brochure, just there'south nothing wrong with generating some mystery and keeping covered. Flashing pare and showing bum aren't the only things yous can do to draw attention to yourself: Wear bright colors, or clothing a bra with plenty support to create cleavage. (But if you're wearing a revealing superlative, brand sure your lesser half is covered.) There'due south a fine line between looking sexy and slutty, and you lot want to err on the side that doesn't also include dominatrices and strippers.

You might exist thinking: Why? Why, in these modern times, would I demand to be at all prim or ladylike? (Chances are, withal, if you're reading this book correct at present — as opposed to, say, having an entire fraternity suck tequila out of your umbilicus — you already know the answer to this.) But let's attend to the query: Sluts hardly ever win. Sure, occasionally the girl who constantly flaunts her goodies parlays such exposure into success (Hullo, Paris Hilton!), only overall information technology's non a good idea. I have met models and actresses who have lost endorsement deals because they insist on showing upwardly at clubs with their butt cracks out, or because they grab the center of the wrong type of man while rocking an outfit that screams: "My daddy didn't honey me, and then I'll brand upwards for that now by showing every man in the room my nipple piercing."

If the hottest girl in the world loses a million-dollar cosmetics contract because she wears a crop acme to a nightclub, don't you recall that perchance, just maybe, you could lose the affection of Johnny Quarterback if he knows you're willing to show the entire team your footballs?

A smoky eye, tousled hair, tight tops, short skirts with tights — in that location are a meg ways to look sexy without looking similar you've been rode hard and put away wet. Perhaps you lot have a great pair of legs — wear a slightly more conservative top and go ahead and bare those gams. Maybe you lot have a cute, slender cervix, or perfect pale arms, or a beautiful collarbone. I've e'er idea the back is one of the sexiest parts of a woman's body. In fact, to this day, when a Cate Blanchett (at her first Golden Globes) or a Gwyneth Paltrow (run into: the pink Ralph Lauren clothes she wore when she won the Oscar for "Shakespeare in Dearest") works an open-backed dress, she finds herself in both best-dressed lists and men's fantasies. The betoken is, the sexy parts of the body aren't necessarily the parts of the body that are used during the deed of having sex.

Recall: Cultivating some mystery is still one of the greatest weapons of mass seduction at that place is. The other one is conviction. I don't want to get likewise Oprah on you hither, but information technology's truthful that how yous carry yourself is oft more important than what y'all clothing. You might accept the sexiest outfit on, but if you hold yourself like a timid granny at a rock concert, you lot won't expect nearly every bit hot as the confident girl in the turtleneck.

Excerpted with permission from "Classy: Exceptional Advice for the Extremely Modern Lady" by Derek Blasberg (Razorbill, 2010).

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